Strategies for divorcing a Narcissist
Nobody prepares you for the hell of going one on one against a covert narcissistic personality in the courtroom.
In my experience, they will have a lawyer with the same narcissistic traits.
With that being said, Judges will buy every single one of their so-called victim cries.
This will cause you to lose any hope that you have the slightest chance to win the bullies in front of you.
However, you will lose a couple of court dates. Maybe more. It takes your resilience to get through the nightmare.
I learned the hard way as well, but eventually, I understood how to beat my narcissistic ex-spouse at her own game.
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Search for lawyers until you find the right fit no matter how long it takes.
Don’t just go off of what you read about them. Meet them in person so you can feel it in your gut. If they don’t feel right, they aren’t for you.
1. Never show your next move
2. Don’t buy into a “nice Narcissist”
3. Leave your emotions outside of the courtroom
4. Communicate only when necessary
5. Document everything
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Stages of divorcing a narcissist
There are many stages in a divorce court. When custody is in the mix you will have the biggest emotional roller coaster ride of your life.
Learning how about dealing with a covert narcissist mother under these stages is all based on your self-control. This will get easier as you push through this nightmare,
Often, when pushed into a corner a Narcissist will unleash narcissistic rage. A fury that will do whatever it takes to push you out of their life.
While educating myself on how to destroy a Narcissist in court, I eventually learned how to use this explosive rage to my advantage.
Covert Narcissists are usually stealth when they are approaching any battle. They do not ever want to get caught and exposed as a fake.
With that being said, when the fury of rage is ignited I began to notice they aren’t very sneaky.
Narcissists love seeing their partners fall apart, which is why they also love to cause harm. They lie all the time, and they’ll play psychological games with their partners in order to confuse them and appease their constant desire for excitement.
However, be prepared for an absolute onslaught of accusations. Child abuse, neglect, harassment and more that could lead to prison time.
Do not use this tactic without having your guard up and ready with facts. Hard facts. Do not contact them if you feel something is up.
The reason for not contacting them is because of any “without notice” protection orders that may or may not be in place. Any communication will lead to your arrest.
Believe me, police will love to play the “hero” in the situation. Unfortunately, they are ordered to arrest you no matter what.
You will receive papers within the week to fight the protection order in place. Your best bet is to use your best judgment on proving all the allegations as malicious.
Narcissist Divorce Tactics
Confine your energy in what matters the most.
A Narcissist only plays to win. If that means destroying you both financially and mentally than don’t expect them to slow down.
Your mental health will be a big part in this, and staying as healthy as you can will keep you on top of the divorce.
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You are going to have to watch your circle and who you trust. It’s not only unethical, narcissistic lawyers in your path.
Family members, school teachers, close friends and more will buy into a Narcissist’s charm. Behind your back, they can be working against you as your ex-spouse conveniently plays the victim card.
Play this game to win as well, but avoid creating more conflict and court time. If you are satisfied with what you have then you can absolutely settle.
Don’t settle for less, but the sooner you get out of the courtroom the better you can move on from this tragic experience.
How to divorce a Narcissist and win
Among the ways above, there are resources you will want to educate yourself with to fully understand what you are up against.
I spent a lot of wasted time searching google for a way out of the Devil’s playground of divorce court.
You hear about the corruption in court cases but you don’t actually see it until you are in it.
Luckily, Ann Bradly covers her own divorce against her narcissistic ex-spouse and his unethical attorneys so you can see it before you step foot in it.
She exposes the judges and lawyers who set everything up for her to lose. She lost her case.
However, she did not give up. It was appealed in a higher court and she was able to prove the disgusting actions used against her.
After winning the appeal, she wrote a book showing each and every move that made her succeed.
I highly recommend this treasure because it really opens your eyes to how the system does not care about your well-being.
Protecting your family is the best feeling you can have.
Win against a covert Narcissist
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Divorcing a Narcissist is a lonely road. .However, you can get through this.
Therapy is important because it’s easy to get side tracked. A support system you can trust is also essential.
Do not look at your ex spouse as the person they pretended to once be. This will only end bad.
That person was only an illusion, and your empathy is something they wanted to destroy.
They are jealous of your confidence. Your accomplishments. How much your children talk about you. Everything.
Keep your head up and fight through the madness for your family and yourself.
After all is said and done, you will be able to spread the word on narcissism and not be slightly faded by your ex spouse.
You will come out stronger than before, with a heightened sensitivity to point out these demonic spirits.
Ultimately, you will find the person that is not putting on a show for you. They want you for you.
With that being said, if you attracted a Narcissist once you are bound to do it again.
Let this be a lesson to keep your guard up and recognize the real from the fake. After this divorce, you will be able to smell them from a mile away.