The covert narcissist’s addiction
Narcissistic supply addiction with a covert narcissist is equivalent to being addicted to a drug.
Are you settling as just a drug for the Narcissist to use and abuse?
Perhaps they are your drug..it can go either way with such twisted behavior.
However, This is exactly where they want you.
Stumbling on your thoughts, questioning your sanity… the
same old song.
Narcissistic supply is explained by ExploringYourMind as:
narcissists need a person to become their supply, a source of the things they themselves can’t get on their own. This source of “provisions” turns into an extension of themselves or, in other words, a part of them.
narcissism and narcissist meaning
Understanding the meaning of narcissism is a long road, and you are likely to get a wide variety of answers.
I love the narcissist definition given by PsychologyToday
Narcissism, in lay terms, basically means that a person is totally absorbed in self. The extreme narcissist is the center of his own universe. To an extreme narcissist, people are things to be used. It usually starts with a significant emotional wound or a series of them culminating in a major trauma of separation.
You could grow your knowledge in narcissism and have a little fun by, “poking the bear” with supply, but you will only end up witnessing the unforgiving narcissistic rage.
It is not a pretty sight, and you will regret inflicting narcissistic injury very quickly.
It’s not just you learning that lesson as they will find a way to maliciously destroy everything you love.
Anything that loves you.
You could be a child that gets bullied by their parent for supply, or a parent being bullied by the other parent using the children as a sadistic weapon in an unforgiving war.
There are plenty of situations for a Narc chasing this drug-like attachment to their death.
With that being said, supply always runs out.
because it doesn’t matter how much you give them, it will never be good enough.
The more you try, the more you will fall.
Sociopath traits happen when a Narcissist loses supply
A covert narcissist is all about the drama with narcissistic supply, but they are much more into it than you might actually know.
Like all addicts, when the drug is finished they need to keep the high going by any means necessary.
Much like a narcissistic sociopath, unforgiving adult child narcissistic behaviour comes to light.
An abusive cycle.
When the narcissistic supply runs out, they already have another one ready to go.
Fresh meat is currently being love-bombed just like you were at one point.
They’re likely done with you and have found a new victim that has no clue what’s coming to them.
Don’t bother alerting this person, or even trying to sabotage whatever you know is coming to them.
You will only be buying into the manipulative scheme of a Narcissist to turn everything on you like you’re the cause of a narcissistic relationship.
There are two main sources involved with a narcissistic supply addiction.
1. Primary narcissistic supply
Primary sources are commonly:
You might think that supply is always positive towards a Narcissist, but it can be negative as well.
They love when a spouse is stuck with the hate-love relationship, children are easy targets for a narcissistic supply mother.
A high is a high for them, whatever keeps their insecure image deep down inside for nobody to see.
2. Secondary Supply
Secondary supply should be looked at as “high stature” to the public.
This is so the grandiose Narcissist can have the appearance of only being around, “people like them”
If anybody in this source turns against them in any way, they will be discarded immediately.
In this case, parental alienation will be at full speed to destroy any relationship this person has with their children.
This is usually the case with narcissistic spouses as reality sets in of their partner’s narcissistic personality disorder symptoms.
It is not uncommon to see a person attempt to learn how to deal with a narcissist by believing that it can be done by exposing the devious mask of shame.
You can expect false allegations, protection orders, smear campaigns, and anything to keep you away from spreading the truth.
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You focus on yourself and get it in your head that these people will be against you regardless if they see the truth.
With that being said, all of these bullies didn’t get the care, support or love from their care-takers during their childhood.
Now they are on a mission for the rest of their life to prove they are more worthy than everybody else.
Those poor souls need to feel better about themselves by using these pathetic tactics, often at others’ expense.
Let me tell you from experience: paying these blood-sucking creatures no mind kills them inside.
We all slip up, believe me.
However, watching them look for a supply that isn’t there is simply much more gratifying.
No supply for you. Run along now!
You were chosen by an evil parent to drown beside them in their delusional world of narcissism.
Why? because they were jealous of your empathy.
They wanted to take that from you. How could you forget your special defence mechanism?
Killing ’em with kindness
Kiss Narcissism goodbye
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